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Coping with Pregnancy Fatigue: Tips for Busy Moms

Cooking up a whole human – from scratch – is hard work! It’s exhausting, even in its best moments, and the fatigue just hits different than your regular sleepiness.

The irony of the fatigue is how important it is to get extra rest during pregnancy; your body is working overtime and will continue doing so even after the pregnancy as it works hard to heal. So how do we balance getting the extra rest our pregnant bodies so desperately crave with our day-to-day responsibilities, work, possible other children, and the demands (physical, emotional, mental, financial) of preparing for a new baby?

Having a proper understanding of pregnancy fatigue and how it’s different from just feeling tired is key, along with prioritizing your rest and self-care, practicing gentle movement and exercise, and finding a supportive community.

Understanding Pregnancy Fatigue

Pregnancy fatigue is a specific, often overwhelming sense of exhaustion that, unlike regular tiredness that can often be alleviated by a good night’s sleep or a quick rest, really sets into your bones. Pregnancy fatigue is typically linked to the physical and hormonal changes that occur during pregnancy. It can be caused by factors such as hormonal fluctuations, increased physical demands on the body, and emotional stress related to the changes in lifestyle and expectations.

This fatigue can vary across trimesters—it’s particularly common in the first trimester as the body adjusts to the pregnancy, tends to improve during the second trimester, and often returns in the third trimester due to the physical toll pregnancy takes. The first trimester sees a particular strain on energy levels as this is when all of the baby’s major organs are created (between weeks 8 – 13). There’s typically a much-welcomed, albeit short-lived, repreive in the second trimester with a burst of energy. In the final weeks of the pregnancy, fatigue tends to return as even everyday tasks become more difficult due to the growing baby increasing pressure, well, everywhere.

Unlike common tiredness, pregnancy fatigue can feel more intense and may not fully resolve with rest, making it essential for expectant mothers to prioritize self-care and support to help ease the effects of fatigue on their health.

Prioritizing Rest and Self-Care

There always seems to be a never-ending list of things to get done to prep for a new baby, but the most important thing to look after is your health and overall wellness! Take advantage of offers to help out with errands, chores, or nesting, and carve out time for rest as a priority.

The body is going through so many physiological and hormonal changes, and will require more downtime to compensate for this. Listening to your body and the signals it sends is essential – whether your body is asking for sleep, physical rest, mental rest, food, or comfort, honor what your body needs during this extremely demanding time.

Remember that rest does not always necessarily mean sleep. In fact, striving for short, restorative periods of non-sleep rest throughout the day can be as energizing as a nap and help improve your quality of sleep when you are able to grab that nap or get to bed! Some ways to practice non-sleep rest include mindfulness and meditation, gentle stretching or walking, reading, taking a relaxing bath or shower, or listening to relaxing music or audiobooks. (Check out prior post on Mindfulness and Meditation Techniques for Expecting Moms!)

Taking care of yourself while you’re pregnant is the first way that you take care of your baby, as you are your baby’s home while they grow. Be sure to nourish your body and show yourself plenty of love and grace!

Gentle Exercise and Movement

While exercising when you’re already tired may seem counterintuitive, engaging in appropriate prenatal exercise can actually help boost your energy levels, as well as promote relaxation and manage chronic pregnancy-related pains.

Exercising triggers a hormone release that acts as a natural mood and energy booster, so working out safely when tired can help give your body the wake-up call it needs to get back to your day. Additionally, consistent exercise helps the body to become more efficient, requiring less effort to complete daily tasks and therefore leaving you with more energy.

Keeping the body strong and managing mobility and cardiovascular endurance throughout pregnancy can help reduce or prevent pregnancy-related pains such as low back pain, hip and glute pain, sciatic nerve pain, pelvic and groin pain, and swelling and cramping, particularly in the legs, ankles, and feet. Working to lighten the physical and mental toll that chronic pain takes on the body and mind can improve both quality of sleep and energy levels, resulting in less overall fatigue.

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It’s important to ensure all exercises performed during pregnancy are modified as necessary to keep you and your baby safe! Low-impact activities such as walking, swimming, and light-weight or body-weight resistance training are typically considered safe and beneficial for most medically-typical pregnancies. Always consult with your doctor or healthcare provider prior to starting a new exercise routine, especially during pregnancy. We recommend working with a certified personal trainer with a specialized background in pre- and postnatal fitness to ensure exercises are modified and tailored to your goals and your pregnancy! (For general exercise guidelines, check out our prior posts Safe Exercises for Each Trimester of Pregnancy and The Importance of Core Strength During Pregnancy!)

Finding Support and Community

Having a supportive network of family, friends, or other moms (expecting moms or not!) is a huge asset for your mental sanity and rest! Being able to lean on those around you for help with everyday tasks, childcare, errands, or chores helps to lighten your load and allow you more time and opportunity to get the rest your body needs.

Connecting with other parents and expecting parents to swap tips and tricks, pass hand-me-downs, or simply share the stresses and joys of pregnancy and parenthood is super important for keeping your mental health in check and cutting down on stress. Joining a local Mommy & Me class – whether virtually or in-person – is a great place to start. You can also find other parents with children of similar ages to yours by enrolling in birth-prep classes at your hospital, checking out kid’s activities offered through your local community center, or visiting story-time at the public library!

In conclusion, navigating pregnancy fatigue is an essential part of the journey toward motherhood. Prioritizing rest and self-care, listening to your body’s needs, and engaging in gentle exercise can help you manage this fatigue effectively.

As you move through this transformative time, be kind to yourself. Acknowledge that feeling fatigued is not only normal but a shared experience among many expectant mothers. You’re not alone in this, and it’s perfectly okay to lean on your support system and seek help when needed. We’d love to hear from you! Share your own tips or experiences with coping with pregnancy fatigue in the comments below. Let’s support each other through this incredible journey!

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6 Tips to Handle Burnout

We’ve all been there – feeling exhausted, unmotivated, trapped, and ready to give up. Struggling with burnout is no joke! BUT, we don’t have to stay there. When you start feeling the signs of burnout creeping in, the best thing you can do to combat it is to face it head on. Below are our 6 tried & true tips for beating burnout.

  1. schedule ‘recharge’ time

If you’re started to feel burnt out, chances are you’re juggling a lot right now. I know it can feel impossible, but taking even just half an hour to yourself can really help reset your burnout clock!

Personally, I am an introvert, so recharge time for me means staying home alone in comfy clothes, not answering my phone, watching TV, and eating my favorite snacks for an hour or two. I like to cap this off with a nice workout and a long shower, and every time I feel brand new!

There are times when I start to identify the warning signs of burnout – irritability, frustration with even minor inconveniences, feeling defeated, or helplessness – and I know I simply do not have the availability to carve out a few hours of recharge time anytime soon. In these situations, I try to create a mini recharge oasis for myself in the midst of whatever I am currently doing. Sometimes simply changing into comfier pants, making myself a hot tea or peppermint mocha, and lighting my favorite candle goes a long way!

In essence, as soon as you start to feel the burnout grumpies making an appearance, stop and do something nice for yourself – however small it may feel – to honor yourself and tide you over until you can have a proper recharge time.

I’ve also started sprinkling in mini recharges oases for myself – giving myself an extra 5 minutes to slow down in my morning and bedtime routines a couple times a week, putting on a facemask while I make dinner, or chatting with my sister while doing chores or errands – that help keep the burnout at bay!

  1. mix up your routine

Normally like to run the treadmill? Try the elliptical! Are you a weightstack machine fanatic? Try a kettlebell or resistance band routine!

We also suggest trying something you’ve never tried before, or even something outside of your go-to or comfort zone, to really mix it up. There are SO many ways to be active, like dance classes, hiking, kickboxing, kayaking, mountain climbing, swimming, even archery! Finding a new activity can not only help break your brain out of a burnout rut, but may also present you with a new favorite hobby!

  1. take an active recovery day

Like a recharge day for your muscles, the importance of active recovery days (and rest days!) cannot be overstated! The human body is so amazing and smart, and pretty good at telling us what we need. I’m sure we’ve all heard the adage of the pregnant woman who jumped in her car and drove miles into the wilderness without knowing where she was going, to end up eating handfuls of red dirt that apparently contained high levels of minerals that her body was severely lacking.

Let’s be clear, I am not suggesting you drive aimlessly or eat dirt (but hey, you do you!); but rather, listen to your body and be open to changing your plans based on what your body is telling you it needs.

If you’re feeling burnt out, it’s possible that you would benefit more from a leisurely walk, yoga or gentle stretch sesh, meditation, or even a nap than you would from pushing yourself to do your workout.

Remember that it’s okay to take an extra rest day, too, if you’re feeling sore or tired! Doing a workout begrudgingly or half-assedly can lead to injury, or just having a Bad Time, neither of which we recommend.

  1. do a fun fitness activity

Much like mixing up your routine, swapping out your more ‘formal’ exercise routine for something fun can turn your whole day around! Rather than dragging yourself to the gym, why not invite a friend to go on a hike or take the dog on a walk with your neighbor?

Former athlete? Look for a local event or team you can join; play basketball at the park or volleyball at the beach! Whatever it is, just find a way to do something active that makes you smile. Exercise triggers the release of endorphins in your system, the body’s natural happy-chemical, so combining the act of getting your heart rate up with something you enjoy is a sure-fire way to banish those burnout feelings and get back on track!

  1. join a group fitness class or group

Have you ever tried a group fitness class? The energy is ELECTRIC!! Something about working out with a whole group of people always leaves me feeling so pumped and excited! I know when I’m feeling burnt out, often the last thing I want to do is to be around other people (and trust me, my introvert-centric recharge days are definitely needed + appreciated); but the last LAST thing I really want to do is move around or be active. For some reason, combining them seems to cancel it out (two negatives make a positive, I guess? idk, I went into the science field, not math!) and I always end up having the best time!

Joining a group fitness class – whether it’s a one-time event or becoming a part of a fitness group – really instills a sense of community and camaraderie that leaves you feeling accomplished and absolutely enthused. If you’re competitive, like me, look for a bootcamp-style fitness class or group to really push you to your limits! If competition doesn’t rev your engine, look for a more fun-based fitness group to get that athlete’s high from the encouragement and laughs along the way!

Did you know that the fitness cult offers a variety of group fitness classes monthly?! Check them out on our #group fitness page!

  1. workout with a buddy

If you’re feeling especially unmotivated to hit the gym, try inviting a best friend, partner, sibling, or family member to join you! You’ll get to step into the teacher or trainer role for a moment, which changes your point of view and can definitely shake up those burnout feelings.

If you have a friend who is well-established in their physical fitness routine, invite yourself to join them! Seeing a new routine or perspective can provide a total reset to your burnout or boredom and help renew your excitement and motivation about getting active!

Lastly, don’t beat yourself up. We all have ups & downs; days where we feel unstoppable and days where we feel, well, very stoppable! Just keep taking it day by day and remember that the way you feel right now will not last forever, no matter how permanent it might feel. You are capable of accomplishing so many things! But, Rome wasn’t built in a day and Hercules didn’t battle Cerberus on a weekly basis; so be kind to yourself and let yourself take time to rest, reset, and recharge. At the end of the day, you’ve got this!!

mental health resources

Mental Health FIRST AID Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

NIH (National Institute of Mental Health) Resources (Free crisis text line!)

SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) – 24/7 Free Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

www.mentalhealth.gov

NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illnesses) Helpline: 1-800-950-6264 (Free crisis text line and chat!)

Betterhelp.com

Talkspace.com

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