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What is Diastasis Recti? A Guide for Moms to Understand and Heal

Your body does amazing things during pregnancy — growing and carrying new life is no small task. But along with that transformation, many women notice changes in their core that don’t just “bounce back” right after birth. One of the most common postpartum concerns is diastasis recti — yet so many moms have never even heard of it until they’re experiencing it.

If you’ve noticed a lingering belly “pooch,” a gap down the middle of your stomach, or just a feeling of core weakness after pregnancy, you’re not alone — and you’re definitely not broken. Let’s talk about what diastasis recti is, why it happens, and how you can begin healing.

What is Diastasis Recti?

Diastasis recti is a separation of the rectus abdominis muscles — the “six-pack” muscles that run down the center of your belly. Normally, these muscles are held together by connective tissue called the linea alba.

During pregnancy, as your uterus grows and your abdominal wall stretches to make room for your baby, the linea alba can thin and stretch apart. This leaves a gap between the left and right sides of your ab muscles.

It’s incredibly common: research shows that up to 2 in 3 women experience diastasis recti after pregnancy.

Why Does It Happen?

Pregnancy puts a lot of pressure on your abdominal wall — and that’s not a bad thing; it’s simply part of the process. Several factors can influence whether diastasis recti develops and how severe it may be:

Growing Baby: As your belly expands, the connective tissue naturally stretches.

Hormones: Relaxin and progesterone soften ligaments and connective tissues, making them more flexible (and sometimes more prone to separation).

Multiple Pregnancies: With each pregnancy, your core muscles may weaken a little more if not properly supported.

Genetics: Some women’s connective tissue is naturally more elastic than others.

Movement Patterns: How you get out of bed, lift, or carry weight during pregnancy and postpartum can either help support your core — or put more stress on it.

How to Tell if You Have Diastasis Recti

A common sign is a visible “doming” or bulging down the midline of your stomach when you sit up, cough, or strain. You may also feel softness or a gap when pressing gently around your belly button.

The good news? This condition is treatable — and in many cases, fully reversible with proper care.

Healing Diastasis Recti Postpartum

Healing isn’t about doing crunches or planks — in fact, those moves can make things worse in the early stages. Instead, the focus is on retraining your core from the inside out. Here’s how:

1. Reconnect With Your Breath

Breathing properly is the foundation of healing. Start with diaphragmatic breathing, where you inhale into your ribs and belly and exhale while gently engaging your deep core (think: hug your baby gently toward your spine).

2. Engage the Deep Core Muscles

The transverse abdominis (your body’s natural “belt”) plays a huge role in closing the gap. Gentle exercises like heel slides, pelvic tilts, or modified dead bugs can help activate these muscles safely.

3. Strengthen the Whole Core System

Healing isn’t just about your abs — it includes your pelvic floor, back, and hips. A balanced, progressive program helps restore stability and function.

4. Avoid Common Aggravators

Movements that put excessive pressure on the midline (like crunches, sit-ups, and heavy twisting) can slow healing. Learning safe movement strategies for everyday activities — even how you roll out of bed — is just as important as exercise.

5. Seek Guidance

Every woman’s body and recovery are different. Working with a pre/postnatal certified trainer (like me!) ensures you get a customized program to support your healing safely and effectively.

The Takeaway

Diastasis recti is common, but it’s not something you have to “just live with.” With the right knowledge, movements, and support, you can absolutely restore strength to your core and feel confident in your body again.

Healing takes time, but every small step counts. And remember — your body has already done something incredible. Now it deserves the care and support it needs to thrive postpartum.

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how often should you be working out your abs; and other core ponderings

Ah yes, the dreaded ab-day. We all love to hate working our abs, but still want that six-pack! But the question remains: how much ab-work do we really have to do?

How often should I work my abs?

Most strength training days should include your abs!

We love to sneak core-strengthening exercises into all of our workouts! Be sure to propery engage your core during all movements – especially those involving heavy weights – to protect your spine.

You can use core work as a quick warm-up before beginning your workout, such as starting with a bird-dog or dynamic pike to plank series.

By bracing your core when performing any workout, you activate and engage the muscles of the entire core to strengthen them.

Now, if you are looking to really shred your six-pack, you will need to turn up the notch on your ab workouts and focus on core-specific exercises and moves.

For this type of ab work, we recommend a frequency of roughly 3-4 times a week; depending on your goals and the level of intensity of your workout sessions.

how many crunches do i really have to do?

None, if you don’t want to!

The best way to strengthen – and define – your abs is with a variety of different exercises moves to isolate and engage your core.

Your core includes your abdomen, the oblique abdomen (the “side,” or waistline), your upper and lower abdomen, your lower back, and even your hip flexors! Being intentional in working out your entire core in varying ways is the best path to rock-hard abs.

There are SO many ways to work your abs & core outside of traditional crunches. In addition to the many, many variations on the traditional crunch, there are countless other ways to engage and isolate your most important core muscles:

  • planks
    • high plank
    • forearm plank
    • side plank
    • pike plank
  • crunch variations
    • mermaid crunch
    • froggy crunch
    • oblique crunch
      • bicycles
    • standing oblique crunch
  • other core exercises
    • swimmers
    • scissor kicks
    • roll-ups
    • tornados
  • balancing acts
    • single-leg movements
    • BOSU ball workouts
    • yoga
  • jump around
    • jump rope
    • box jumps
    • single-leg jumping
  • core cardio
    • kickboxing
    • Pilates
  • other core exercises
    • Russian twists
    • sit ups
    • hip dips
    • V-ups

and so many more not listed here! If you are looking for more ways to work your abs, reach out to us or join our next group class to get sweatin’!

is it safe to work out my abs everday?

Yes and no.

Your ab muscles – like all other muscles in your body – do need time to recover between sessions to actually see growth or an increase in strength. Allow roughly 24 hours between intense ab blasts and take 1-2 days a week off from abs!

lastly – abs are cut from the kitchen!

With any weight loss goals, we expect our dietary habits to need a refresh at the very least. But with goals specific to shredding your abs, the important of nutrition cannot be overstated!

Pair your tfc core-strengthening workouts with eating lean, clean, and green protein and carbs to reveal the awesome ab display you have chiseled out for yourself!

Did you know – we also offer Nutrition Services! Check out our services – including meal prep and planning, grocery store tours, cooking demonstrations, and nutrition label counseling – to help take your abs to the next level!

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